Why Realtionships are so important?
Hi i am back again...it seems I got blogging fever. Actually I was thinking what shall be the next post in my blog? so I started writing just to see where I end up, or to catch up what's all moving in my mind. what rightnow I am feeling is, lots of things are there but it just doesn't come out.
Let me try to catch something......."Why Realtionships are so important for human being?"
Obviously, here I am talking about one to one relationship. Lets start when you came into the world..starting from the day one, you had so many relations around..and the most important one is mother. This is pretty well known by all of us...wherever we live around the world. here my point of concentration is certainly not this
So what all kind of relations you can have in your whole life?...that's pretty hard to find. Lets try to accumulate some of them: some are defined, well-known...whereas others are undefined. Whatever it is.....there is definately a bond needed...which can differ...
you may spent whole of your life just in search of affection, love.
or may be you are lucky, you have already found it.
or may be you are expecting it to come to your way soon.
But, believe me...it will not be the case that you have it ...but not pretty sure whether it's the same or not...because when you find that person you'll certainly realise that he/she is the one or not..sometimes you may get confuse..but not for long and that's for sure.
Now criteria of love is not specific....it's as wide as sky...or may be it's more than that..and I dont have words to explain it...well I am also not going to explain the term love over here....but it's too precious to everyone of us..for you also ...isn't it?...
till here we discussed about relations those are delineated by you.... what about those which you feel... but can't explain, can't accept....?
Probably you are scared to concede this affection....as this is socially unacceptable. or if you accept them truely then what will happen to other defined relations?.. May be that's why people dont acknowledge these affections easily...but what would you do if you come into this trap?...that's again a pretty hard question to answer....but think on....
I suggest you to think before entering into these unknown ..but strong bonds. Your life is precious for your own individual's personality as well for those for whom you matters a lot....because if you dont think ...then for your whole life you'll make efforts to name them. you'll struggle with the society, with your defined bonds, and the most important your own....
May be you dont realise but you matters to yourself...and that's most important you should never forget...so beware of unknown but always welcome those which you can name....
This is what khushi feels..for her relationships are important for everyone,...for you , for me, for us.... and she love to have all of them...this is something she learnt from life.
posted by Shuchita @ 12:16 PM
6 Comments:
HHEAVYYYYYY !
looks like learnt a lot!
Well, life is a circle of learning, unlearning things and varying the choices, the perception and most importantly the mechanism of thoughts.
People steps into your life having an influence- some positive ones and some negative ones. Though, a distinct sweet friend(that i am) can make you unlearn the negative (and probably heavy) ones and learn the more charming ones!
Keep chirping sweetheart :-)
Hmmm Really heavy...and emotional..
But lemme tell...you i ntodays world...
"EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS A CHALLENGE!!"
Howzzzatt?
If you take every relation as a challenge..then you'll be bit professional to those. you'll become selfish for urself, and you always expect some outcome from that relationship....and wherever you dont find any worth results from those relationship..you'll not continue with it. Every new relationship can be challeneging for both the parties. but once you are familiar to that person...it wont be any more challenge. Try it out!!!
Well all relationships are important. It all boils down which ones you proritize. Say if my relationship with my friend of many years is in conflict with my another, though not common, friend of many years or for that matter my wife (WHEN?? :( ), then what I really need to do is prioritize which one!! And once I have mande that concious choice of prioritizing the relationships which conflict, I have to some extent avoided/resolved the conflict and agreed to whatever consequences that act may have. In hindsight one can always what you did was wrong/bad, but the decision at the present is what counts.
As far was why we all need realtionship, you should go back in time and ask Why 'Baba Adam' needen 'Hauaa' (ROTFL) (englidh translation: Why adam neded eve?), that was the first instance of dependency on relationships. Scientifically it all required beacuase we are emotionally aware and not emotionally challanged!!
Can,t stop me writing on this. Some very good points are really there like the basic need for all of us is love and we form a relation only when the love is there. but will disagree about the unknown relationship. we always have a mutual bond or call it understanding in the relationship and it is only our culture due to which we try to hide our feelings at times. why a person can not love so many other persons when you have so many beautiful huaman being out there :-) ---KK(PP's frnd)
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